Author: Sally Hepworth
Genre: Contemporary Fiction
Publication Date: 19th January 2016
Pages: 352
Book Source: St Martins Press & NetGalley
Synopsis: Anna Forster, in the early stages of Alzheimer's disease at only thirty-eight years old, knows that her family is doing what they believe to be best when they take her to Rosalind House, an assisted living facility. She also knows there's just one another resident her age, Luke. What she does not expect is the love that blossoms between her and Luke even as she resists her new life at Rosalind House. As her disease steals more and more of her memory, Anna fights to hold on to what she knows, including her relationship with Luke.
When Eve Bennett is suddenly thrust into the role of single mother she finds herself putting her culinary training to use at Rosalind house. When she meets Anna and Luke she is moved by the bond the pair has forged. But when a tragic incident leads Anna's and Luke's families to separate them, Eve finds herself questioning what she is willing to risk to help them.
My Thoughts:
My
first time reading Australian author Sally Hepworth. I plan to make up for lost
time after this beautiful read.
There
are few of us untouched by Alzheimers; our memories are a defining part of who
we are, the essence of one's self. When names, experiences and memories are
taken, Love may be the thread that sustains even though the thread may be as fine and
delicate as gossamer wings.
38
year old Anna has early-onset Alzheimer's. Sally Hepworth covers her cognitive
decline with sensitivity and humour. But there's more to this story than the
sadness of Alzheimer's. It's a love story, a story of hope and heart.
In
the assisted care facility Rosalind House, Anna and fellow resident Luke, a 41
year old with a variant of frontotemporal dementia fall in love.
...
Nat King Cole's rich baritone notes fill the room. He and I stare at each
other, expressionless.
"This
is a joke, right?" I say as the swell of tension gives way to laughter.
"Unforgettable?"
"No,"
he says, even though he's laughing now, too. "I've listened to this record
before, but I don't remember hearing this song."
You...
don't - " A wave of hysteria hits. Now I'm laughing so hard, I can barely
get the word out. "-remember?"
That
sets him off, which sets me off again. Which sets him off again. And for the
next few minutes, he and I are just two young people. Laughing. Kissing. And
listening to Nat King Cole.
The narrative alternates between Anna, widowed, single mother Eve, the
new cook at Rosalind House and Clementine, Eve's seven year old daughter.
Eve
befriends Anna, her desire to help Anna and Luke may not have been the wisest
move given her lack of medical knowledge but I empathised, you cannot help but
form emotional connections when you work in a place like Rosalind House.
Anna's
first person perspective as the disease progresses is heartbreaking to read.
Sally Hepworth balances this, not with gratuitous humour but with
Anna's dry wit and biting sarcasm, the quirky personalities of many of the
elderly residents and Clementine's sunny nature.
“Dr. Brain once told me that an Alzheimer’s brain was like the snow on a
mountain peak—slowly melting. There are days when the sun is bright and chunks
drop off all over the place and there are days when the sun stays tucked behind
clouds and everything remains largely intact. Then there are days—spectacular
days (his words)—when you stumble across a trail you thought had melted, and
for a short while you have something back that you through was gone forever.”
I
think I'd have felt better about my prognosis if he'd reworded a little.
Something like,
The brain is like a filthy, stinking pile of crap. When the sun comes
out, it stinks worse than you can imagine, and when it’s cold or cloudy, you
can barely smell it at all. Then there are the days that, if the wind is coming
from a certain way, you might catch the cold scent of a spruce for a few hours
and forget the crap is even there.
With that analogy, at least we’d have been calling a spade a spade.
Because the truth is, if you have dementia, your brain is crap. And
even if you can’t smell it right this minute, it still stinks.”
I
adored the elderly residents of Rosalind House, Bert who talks to his wife
Myrna, who's been dead for 50 years, Clara and her husband Laurie, May and Gwen.
They wormed their way into my heart, as did Clementine; she was a ray of
sunshine.
How
wonderful that something as heartbreaking as early-onset Alzheimers is also
warm and funny and hopeful.
"I
promise. We'll be together in the end. Batshit crazy. And together. I
promise."
